Take Time Tuesday.....My Daddy
Tuesday, July 23, 2013
On July 9, 2013 my Dad flew from New York to help me out a few days before my move and to help me drive to Maryland. I am grateful for my Dad and I love him very much. He has always been there for me over the last 78 years (he doesn't look a day over 50) and today I want to make sure I take the time to recognize him. As the saying goes, "we are not promised tomorrow so give me my roses while I can still smell them." During the 10 hour ride from Georgia to Maryland I was able to spend some quality time with my father and hear a little about his interesting past...some facts I already knew and others were new to me. I am nowhere close to being a writer able to compose grammatically correct sentences. Therefore I will list a few of the things I can remember in no particular order.
- Born 1935 to John & Dorothy. He was the son of sharecroppers on Charles Hardy (this is the name he remembers) farm in Edgecomb County, North Carolina.
- He had a white dog named Snowball that followed him everywhere he went.
- Although North Carolina was segregated it wasn't as bad as the deep south. He swam in the same creek as his white counterparts
- There was a young boy that would go into my grandmothers house everyday and raid her refrigerator.
- My father would race my grandfathers car and he once broke the axle on his car doing so
- He move to New York City when he was 21 years old and lived with his Aunt.
- When he got older he got his own apartment with his younger siblings
- He learned how to drive out in the field in his Uncle's car
- He also perfected his skills riding a tractor
- When he was old enough to get a job he no longer did sharecropping with his father but worked at a plant making cement blocks
- He had a friend who wrecked his grandfathers brand new car racing
- Everyone loved his mother's biscuits
These are just a few things we spoke about on our 10 hour journey to Maryland. It was definitely a pleasant ride. If you want to learn more about a person I recommend a road trip. It will either make or break you. What have you learned about someone during a long road trip? Was it fun or pure torture?
Welcome to my world!!
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